Today is our final study of the life of David. For our final study I think it is beneficial for us to simply reflect on what we have learned from the life of David based on our series of 19 blog posts.
In our study of the young life of David we have learned many great things and I am sure you will agree that David was an amazing man. David was a man with tremendous character, love, and passion for God combined with tremendous courage and military strength. Both Christian and non-Christian men, women, and leaders can benefit from becoming a little more like David. (Don’t get me wrong, David was not perfect, but his great character qualities far outweigh his bad.)
Here is the concluding text of our study of David where we get to see him being crowned king over all of Israel.
Then all the tribes of Israel went to David at Hebron and told him, “We are your own flesh and blood. In the past, when Saul was our king, you were the one who really led the forces of Israel. And the Lord told you, ‘You will be the shepherd of my people Israel. You will be Israel’s leader.’” So there at Hebron, King David made a covenant before the Lord with all the elders of Israel. And they anointed him king of Israel. David was thirty years old when he began to reign, and he reigned forty years in all. He had reigned over Judah from Hebron for seven years and six months, and from Jerusalem he reigned over all Israel and Judah for thirty-three years. 2 Samuel 5:1-5
Here we see David crowned king of all of Israel which fulfills Samuel’s prophesy in 1 Samuel 16. Scholars estimate that 15 years has passed between the time Samuel made his prophesy and when David is actually crowned king here in 2 Samuel 5. 15 years is a long time to have to wait to receive your job!
I have worked hard to make the titles of our lessons “actions” that we can do. Part of a good Bible study is executing exegesis to determine the “meaning to them”. When I say “meaning to them” I am referencing the people of the time that the text was written to. In order to properly interpret, understand, and apply biblical truth to our lives we need to first know what the Bible text meant to the people reading it at the time it was written. Then, once we know what the original readers interpreted, we can transfer that interpretation to our lives. The Bible cannot mean to us what it did not mean to people it was first written to.
Because I performed the exegesis for you and allowed our lessons to be more “action” based, we are now able to look back at the lessons and see what we want to do with what we learned.
Here is a summation of the lessons we have learned from the life of David.
1 Sam 16 – God Looks at The Heart of a Potential Leader, Not The skills
1 Sam 17 – Preparing for Leadership When You Are Not in Leadership
1 Sam 18 – Faithfully Serve in Spite of the Leader
1 Sam 19 – It Is Okay to Hurt When We Have Done Good
1 Sam 20 – A Best Friend Helps Us
1 Sam 21 – Hold on to God’s Promise
1 Sam 22 – You Don’t Need a Title or Power to Do Good
1 Sam 23 – No Matter How Tough Things Might Be, Seek God’s Guidance
1 Sam 24 – Never Hurt the LORD’s Anointed One
1 Sam 25 – Keep Faith and Keep Patience
1 Sam 27 – When Operating in Fear, Poor Decisions Are Made
1 Sam 29 – Even a Future King Is Not Perfect
1 Sam 30 – Decide Decisively
2 Sam 1 – Why have we hurt the LORD’s anointed one?
2 Sam 2 – When the Opportunity Is Given, We Still Have to Earn It
2 Sam 3 – Practice Patience in God’s Time Line
2 Sam 4 – Ascend Righteously
Looking back at these lessons, what has been the most impactful to you? Which ones have stood out to you?
For me, several have had special significance. Here are four of the most important lessons I have learned:
- In chapter 16, we learn that God looks at the heart of a potential leader, not the skills. This is very encouraging. It is nice to know that God chooses leaders to do great work who might not always look great on the outside. Instead He chooses the people who have a heart on the inside for Him. As my friend says, “God should be in our heart, not in our shoulder.”
- In chapter 18, we learn to faithfully serve in spite of the leader. This has been a good command for me to implement. At times when reporting to a leader it can be tough to want to give your best effort. But learning from David’s example that we should faithfully serve in spite of who our leader is, what he does, or what he says is a good reminder to us that we work for God, not anyone here on earth.
- In chapter 21, we learn to hold on to God’s promise. This is also encouraging because of what I feel God has put in my heart. I have heard God tell me that He wants me to pour out my heart and what I have learned to help make leaders of everyday men and women. That is a promise that God gave me a few years ago, but it has not come true yet in the magnitude that I think it is supposed to. By now I would have thought God would have allowed me to do more, write more blog posts, have more readers, run my own business full-time, and have several books published and on retail book shelves. All of those areas have happened but not on the level I thought they would by now. God has been faithful to allow me to write and communicate leadership principles and information on a daily basis here on this blog, but I have not had the wider reach that I though He would have wanted me to have by the time I am my age. Therefore, I still hold on to God’s promise that He wants me to teach and serve leaders.
- In chapter 24, we learn to never hurt the LORD’s anointed one. This is probably the most impactful lesson for me in a work context. Too many times at work I have observed coworkers challenge our leader in front of others and/or talk poorly about our leader. One of the most destructive habits I witnessed was when two middle managers (who I reported to) talked very poorly and disgustedly about the CEO of our organization in front of me. It was a very destructive habit and was toxic to our organizational culture at that time. Never hurting the leader above me does not mean that I don’t challenge the leader I work for; it simply means that I show support for the leader publicly. It means that as far as everyone else knows, I am on board with the leader and believe in what she is preaching. If I disagree then I will make that known privately with the leader and talk about it behind closed doors. I have worked hard to respect and follow the leader above me but I believe I can still improve.
Well, our study of the life of David as a young man faithfully following his king (while developing into a leader) has been fun and enjoyable over the past month. I am grateful for the opportunity to share with you what I am learning from the Bible, and I hope you have positively benefited from these blog posts as well. On a side note, I have published outlines and handouts for a 19 week Bible study of the same topics we just worked through. They are all here for free.
Question: Which of these lessons have you applied to your own life?

